Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Wedding: Two Month Marker

Unity Candles
We had our unity candle hand made in ballerina pink with a gold candle holder for display.
They really did an excellent job making a gorgeous candle that’s pretty enough to display for life.
They also helped to make a custom display that is worthy of a few professional pictures of its own!
My man was ALL about this!  Who knew the guy had such a soft spot for candles?

Day Of Beauty Plan
This was, by FAR, the most complicated “wedding task” I have had to do to date!
The bridal party and I have spent weeks trying to put this together.  Luckily, my girls didn’t give up.
Hair appointments have been booked.  Beauty styles have been decided.  All times have been scheduled.
They deserve a pat on the back for this one!  It was hard to coordinate this with their “secondary” duties!

Wedding Paper Divas
I spent two full years browsing through the beautiful products on this site hoping to utilize it at least once.
Everything is really expensive on the site, so I didn’t think I would be able to.  But, I was wrong!
I purchased light pink ribbon, gold customized gift tags for the favors, and matching place cards
The chocolate lollipops will now read “A favor was made in your name to Make A Wish Foundation”.

Hair Trial
After suffering through months of internal debate, I finally settled on a hair style.
My mom recommended her hair dresser who did a fabulous job of recreating my “to the side” up do.
She diagnosed me with a serious need for a dye.  I'll also use extensions for extra length.
As nervous as I was for my hair, I have full confidence that this hairdresser will rock my hair that day!!

Wedding Shoes
I ordered the most gorgeous pair of Vince Camuto heels, but was very disappointed when they didn’t fit right.
I ordered a second pair, third, and then a fourth pair until I couldn’t take the disappointment anymore.
I ended up buying a no-name brand that were so comfortable I thought they were pillows, not heels!
Since I settled for comfort, I got a bright gold pair of heels that totally make me smile.

Reception Decorations
All twelve tables will be adorned with a gorgeous floral centerpiece.
As beautiful as our centerpieces are, we did feel a need to decorate the reception a tiny bit more.
At the candle factory we purchased inexpensive tea light candle holders to sit on each end of the tables.
I feel this need to fill the entire reception hall with gold!  I’m about to buy stock in gold spray paint.

Completed Pre-cana
We were sad to finish the RCIA classes since we looked forward to seeing our classmates turned friends.
Pre-cana classes quickly took that place in our lives and ended up being even more enjoyable.
One month later, and pre-cana also ended.  We officially earned our pre-cana certificate.
Do you think we should sign up for religious education training classes?  I feel like we'd love it!

Cake Topper
Madre ended up giving us a really nice surprise with this one!
She wanted us to have something from the wedding that we can keep and treasure for life.
She got us a gorgeous Lenox cake topper outlined in real gold to adorn our cake and future curio cabinet.
Even Madre, who is so ANTI gold is getting it!  She bought a gold gown and now this.  Love it!!!

What are your wedding planning tips for the 2-month marker?c

Monday, May 25, 2015

Life: Happy Memorial Day!

Happy Memorial Day!

Memorial day is not all about barbecues.
Memorial day isn't just about the paid day off from work.
Memorial day isn't just the day everyone opens up their pools.
Memorial day is not just another long weekend.
Memorial day isn't just an excuse to indulge in tri-colored pasta.
Memorial day isn't just an ok to start wearing white clothes again.
Ok, so maybe it's a little bit of those things, but it's mostly something else.

Memorial Day is a set day for American's to recognize and appreciate all the men and women who served our country.  These are the men and women who sacrificed their lives for the United States of America.

How will you be spending Memorial Day?

Friday, May 22, 2015

Recipe: Summer Skewer Kebabs

Summertime is all about enjoying life, taking it easy, and relishing in the gorgeous weather.
…said the NYer that would rather run around in circles than do nothing all day… hehe
In other words, we didn’t gain three hours of daylight to cook gourmet meals!
Ladies, take the apron off and put the whisk down!  That’s an order!

In honor of casual summer dinners, here’s one of the easiest recipes you’ll ever see!
For a double win, if you have kids, it’s fun to make as a family also.  Put the kids to work.  Hah!

Summer Skewer-Kebabs

(1) Bottle Teriyaki Sauce
(2lbs) Meat Of Choice
Be creative!  I’ve used pork cubes, chicken cubes, and even Shrimp!
(1) Large Red Pepper-Cubed
(1) Large Yellow Pepper-Cubed
(2) Sweet Red Onions-Cubed
(1) Package Baby Bella Mushrooms-Sliced
(1) Package Wooden Skewers

The night before, clean all of your meat/veggies and chop into similar sized cubes.  Once this is done, fill (2) large Ziploc bags with half a bottle of teriyaki sauce each.  Put all the vegetables into one bag and the meat into another.  Make sure all the veggies/meat are fully covered in sauce, and let marinate until dinner time the next day.
It’s so nice to have dinner almost ready to go when you get home.  I totally love that feeling!

An hour before dinner, heat up your light the grill and get it ready for cooking!  Meanwhile, fill your wooden skewers with your preferred pattern of meat and vegetables.  After all of the skewers are filled, place them on the barbeque until they are perfectly cooked.  Make sure to periodically turn the skewers so everything is cooked evenly on all sides.
Unfortunately, my apartment doesn’t have a grill.  I rock this recipe on my broiler instead.  Yum! 

Will you or have you tried this quick summer recipe?

Wednesday, May 20, 2015

List: Ten ways life changes after marrying the person you live with.

The wedding date is quickly approaching.
July 26, people!!!  Double eep!!!
This means that full stress mode is officially kicking in.
For a perfectionist, planning an event that has so many opportunities for problems is very stressful!
Not to mention, the financial aspect of it is an anxiety killer.  I’ll be lucky if I pay my vendors in full.
Everything tripled its value because it’s a wedding.  The church even takes advantage charging $710!

People keeping asking me if I’m nervous for the big day, and I always say “YES!!!”
You and I know that I’m not nervous because of saying I do, but others don’t know that.
Everyone always assumes that I’m afraid to get married and to exchange vows.
Their assumption is confirmed when they respond with “Why?  You’re practically married anyway.”
Whenever I hear this statement, I get really angry!  You can’t be practically married.  You just can’t!

I understand that my man and I have been living together for the past three years.
I understand that we clearly aren’t virgins and that we’ve been raising a child together.
I understand that we combined our finances and that both our names are on our lease.
So, we moved a little quickly.  Things happen and clearly it’s been working out!
Marriage might not be as huge of a change for us as others, but changes are inevitable.

Ten ways your life will change after marrying the person you already live with.
This list is dedicated to the ones that think practically married people’s lives won’t change.

1.  Commitment
Spiritually and legally we will be making a serious commitment to each other.
While we have been committed to each other the past few years, a marriage solidifies the bond.
In other words, the only way out would be to break our promise to God and to pay lots of money!

2.  Titles
The titles boyfriend and girlfriend or domestic partners will be a thing of the past.
After marriage, we will refer to each other and be referred to as husband and wife.
It’s crazy how simple titles can change how you view each other and how other’s view you.

3.  Tax Status
We will no longer have to spend hours researching and playing with numbers to figure out our taxes.
It will no longer matter who claims head of household or who claims the baby girl.
Besides, word is after we are wed and file joint returns, we should see a much heftier pay back!

4.  Security
After marriage, people may feel more secure in a relationship and more obligated to work through things.
Feeling secure in a relationship makes trivial things less important and helps people open up.
That means I can totally go to bed with placenta in my hair and cream on my zits without feeling shy.

5.  Decision Making
From the day we are wed, every decision we make will directly affect the lives of each other.
Living together means respecting each other’s decisions.  Marriage means deciding together.
After marriage, simple stuff like opening an IRA or getting a ticket will be considered OUR problem.

6.  Name Change
After 26 years of being called Ms. Jax, I will now be MRS. my man’s last name.
It’s the start of a whole new life to be lived under a whole new name.
I’m having a very hard time accepting this.  Changing my name feels like losing my identity.

7.  Gain Family Members
Our extended families will now be doubled and filled with in laws.
It’s no longer just my mom and dad that I will worry about it.  I’ll gain a second set of parents.
Does this mean that I have to memorize a whole new set of birthdays??  Hello, calendar!

8.  Credit
Over the past 3 years we have made countless decisions that affected our individual credit reports.
Our credit decisions may directly affect both of us after we tie the knot.
We plan to get a mortgage after the wedding, so let’s hope we impacted our credit positively!!

9.  Validation
It may be 2015, but I still get funny looks when people hear that I have a child and I’m not married.
In the eyes of some people, getting married validates my family and will legitimatize my child.
It’s pathetic to worry about this, but I’m so sick of being judged as an unfortunate circumstance.  Ug!!

10.  Plans
Planning a future no longer ends at my 401K deduction.  We need to make a plan to suit our future.
Life insurance policies, retirement plans, and investments are all things we need to consider.
The type of plans necessary to support a family are endless and sort of trigger my anxiety.  Sigh!

What do you think changes after marriage, even for those already sharing an address?

Monday, May 18, 2015

List: Ten reasons why it's OK to have an old soul.

Recently, I’ve been told to “grow up” by someone who is a little bitter with me.
Since I care about this person, I held back saying “take a good look at your life and then mine”.
Naturally, I was little hurt by this statement so my anxiety asked around for justification.
The most common answer I received was, “If anything, you’re a little TOO mature for your age”.
My man was one of them.  He used it as an excuse to tell me to loosen up a little sometimes.

To put it into perspective, I’ve always had an old soul.
I’ve held a permanent job since the age of 14 and worked full time since I was 17.
I’ve lived on my own and mostly took care of myself since the age of 19.
I’ve completely supported myself financially since the age of 19 and never asked for help.
I paid (and still am paying) my own way through school without any loans.
I also made a quick transition from being a single, independent girl to a family woman and a mother.
How much more growing up would someone like me to do at the age of 26??  Seriously?!

While I’m proud of all I accomplished by this age, that statement helped open my eyes.
I do need to stop worrying every day, sometimes spend money for no reason, and just have fun!
But, by no means, do I ever want to stop having an old soul.
Ladies and gentlemen, Jax is here to defend us “too mature for our age” people.  Your welcome!

Ten reasons why it's OK to have an old soul.

1.  You rely on yourself.
It's a reassuring feeling to know that, no matter what, you will always be ok alone.

2.  You quickly weed out your true friends.
You don’t have time or energy to try and make a friendship with someone who isn’t genuine.

3.  You make financial stability a priority.
Whether it’s scoring a good job or working 5 at once, you do what you need to do to make ends meet.

4.  You won’t settle in a relationship.
Be proud that your man/woman is there because you want them to, not because you need them to.

5.  You know the value of a good credit score.
It could take years to fix a damaged credit score.  You know this and you manage it.

6.  You know the importance of controlling your temper.
While the crazy person is in your face yelling, you (usually) keep your cool.

7.  You think before acting.
An old soul will take time to ponder a big decision.  We will also take time to consider our words.

8.  You admit your mistakes and try to learn from them.
It’s hard to admit one’s faults.  Be proud that you not only acknowledge them but you try to fix them.

9.  You know when it’s OK to brown nose.
People who call you a suck up are just mad that you that you’re a manager’s new favorite!

10.  You know when and where to use electronics
Us old souls will sit at a table enjoying real conversation while others are browse through Instagram.

Is being named an old soul a compliment or an insult?  Why?

Friday, May 15, 2015

Life: Kyle the Fish

Those of you who have been following R&W for a while will remember this story.
It's basically a tale of how baby Jax's OCD indirectly became the cause of my first pet fish's death.
That being said, you can now imagine the horror I felt when Mushy's birthday wish was a pet fish.

Not being one to disappoint my baby girl, I promised her that pet fish.
The Viking went out and bought her a 1.5 gallon fish bowl, lime green gravel, and a decoration.
Of course the decoration was a Spongebob and Patrick figurine.  Two of her favorites!

The next weekend, we all took a trip to Petco as a family.
There my Mushy pointed to every single fish while yelling "THAT ONE".
A lady asked us if we needed help.  I quickly accepted and told her my history.
After a giggle, she pointed me in the direction of the $3 Fighting Beta fish
...and of course she give me a verbal, bullet pointed list of fish care tips...

"**The water must be kept out over night to ensure it's room temperature.
**You must purchase water conditioner to make sure it's suitable living conditions.
**Do not overfeed your pet.  They get 3 pellets a day and no more.
**Change the water and rinse the gravel/decorations weekly.
**These fish like heat, so keep it away from an AC or an open window."
Sounds simple enough, right?  Wrong!

After we picked out a gorgeous fish with red and green streaks, we purchased the necessary supplies.
Of course Mushy fell in love with the $20 Dragon Beta...which means we won't stray from those fish tips!
We were careful not to shake the container all the way home.
We were extremely careful and meticulous when setting up the fish's new home.
Then, while transporting the fish to the bowl, my man dropped the poor baby right onto the table.
Yes, Kyle lived, but he wouldn't eat for 3 days!  He still won't eat if my man's in the room.  True story!
That's when I realized the lady in Petco forgot one major tip...

**Buy a small net so you don't drop your pet fish.
Look at me giving fish advice.  I call that graduating!

What are your pet fish tips?

Wednesday, May 13, 2015

List: Ten women's college graduation gift ideas.

Last week, I posted this article listing ten unique graduation gift idea's for men.
My blogging buddy, BJ from BJ's Sweet Nothings, then asked for a list of gift ideas for women.
...and, of course, I was more than happy to oblige this rocking woman's request...

Ten college graduation gift ideas...for women!

1.  Fashionable Coupon Clutch

Every grown woman needs a stylish place to store her coupons so she can save her hard earned cash!
Can be bought from here.

2.  Rachel Ray's 30 Minute Meals Cook Book

Every grown woman needs a bountiful amount of quick, easy, and healthy recipes for those weeknight meals.
Can be bought here.

3.  Padfolio

Every grown woman needs a padfolio to take on job interviews or important meetings and to keep organized.
Can be bought here.

4.  Blazer

Every grown woman needs a blazer they can throw on in a moment's notice for necessary occasions.
Can be bought here.

5.  Wall Art

Every grown woman should have a piece of culture to remind them of their accomplishments.
Can be bought here.

6.  Bar Tool Set

Every grown woman should have the tools necessary to make a kick butt cocktail for herself or guests.
Can be bought here.

7.  Alarm Clock

Every grown woman needs a real alarm clock for decoration and as back up for when her cellie dies.
Can be bought here.

8.  Ceramic Travel Mug

Every grown woman needs a ceramic (healthier, hello!) travel mug to save money for coffee on the go.
Can be bought here.

9.  Bookends

Every grown woman should have something stylish to keep her books standing straight up.
Can be bought here.

10.  Planter
Ever grown woman needs a stylish planter to selflessly care for something and improve her home's air.
Can be bought here.

What are your unique woman's graduation gift ideas?

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